I hope things turn out for the better for you. First thing: remember never ever to have sex without a condom, whether you have aids or not. In either case you have a life to live and never have sex without a condom! Next: get tested. This is what I am going to do. As early as this coming Monday. I had sex with a Turkish man (I'm gay) in June. Protected, but still, with a complete stranger. Now I'm getting panicked because even though I'm ok the girl who used my semen for artificial insemination has been feeling sick for the past three weeks. I don't even want to think about the feeling of guilt that I'm going to feel if this turns out to be my fault. I'm only consoling myself that I have been feeling fine for all this time. Maybe it's just a flu with her that lasts too long..? why the hell did i not get tested before doing this procedure? Because I had totally forgotten about that occurrence in Istanbul. I panicked right after having sex but then checked the condom and it was whole. I even poured water into it to see if it had any minor lesions but it did not. I am still freaking out at the thought.. we thought we'd have a baby.. how could I have ever acted that stupid. I pray to God this all turns out to be useless ranting. cheers folks